I just stared at the wall. Painting upon painting. His wall was covered with art.
I didn’t know this about him, that he was an artist. Apparently, I was the only one who didn’t know. Unlike me while in college, his artistic works were in the open, out there on display for friends and family to see.
About ten months earlier, we met on a blind date. (Don’t ask.) We had mutual friends and at some point, after this botched introduction and continually running into each other, we started dating.
I was already in danger of loosing my heart. The moment I saw he was an artist tipped me over the top.
Six months ago, over 31 years after seeing his wall of art, I picked up brushes and started to learn watercolor. No one was happier for me than Tim that I was learning to paint. Being married to my best friend is one of the greatest blessings in life. The fact that we also share many of the same passions is life’s icing.
You may wonder why it took me so long to pick up brushes. Oh, I toyed with it a few times, but I knew inevitably, people would compare us.
Our relationship is not about comparing.
Sitting in a blind one morning. Our version of dressing up for a date.
Well, we are comparing our WordPress blog world maps. Oh, then the time we took martial arts together and competed for trophies. And he did get the first buck this season. Mine was bigger. I found the biggest nugget on our claim. Although he holds the record for the biggest agate. However, my geode is near the size of a basketball. We both found nice septarian nodules…nonetheless, you get my point.
Asking a spouse or loved one to critique your work is risky. Tim says that asking him to critique my work is like asking him if my butt looks big or if my clothes make me look fat. There is no right answer.
So I joined an online illustrating course, Make Your Splashes – Make Your Marks!, where I am able to learn, hone my skills and participate in critiques.
As for Tim, here are his most expert responses to my most ridiculous question:
Us with a few of our golden retrievers on vacation at Roaring Camp. It’s a great place to learn about gold mining.
Her: Does this make me look fat?
Him: I don’t think it does your body justice.
Him: I don’t think you would like the way it looks.
Yep, wedded bliss.
Happy Birthday Tim –